Lets Talk About Sex
Ok, so you’re at the legal age (or hopefully older) and you’re ready to have sex. But before you charge on in, or if you’re already active, take time to check the following facts and figures, so you know a bit more about what you’re really, really, getting into.

- Only 1 out of 10 teens use a condom or other form of contraception. That’s 9 out of 10 using no rubber, so imagine how many people’s love juices you’re sharing when you don’t put one on. And do you really want Syphilis? This Victorian disease turned Oscar Wilde insane and is making a comeback today, which is as scary a thought as the Spice Girls reuniting. Symptoms include a painless ulcer that appears two to six weeks after sex, a skin rash, wart-like growths on your hairy-bits (or not if you’re a Brazilian-type of chick) and flu-like symptoms. If untreated it can cause blindness, madness and… death. Real talk.

- Three out of four teenage mothers say their pregnancies are unintended. Think you can get away with a quick poke without a lifetime supplies of nappies and baby-sick pon shoulder? Think again. And pregnancy? Cracked nipples, stretch-marks, morning sickness, hormones asunder…it’s a lot.

- Half a million UK teens currently have an STI, which is double the amount of 10 years ago. That’s 500,000 kids running about with warts, crabs, herpes, weird discharge and god knows what else. Think about that next time you decide not to use a condom. Catch Gonorrhea for instance, and not only will it burn when you p*ss, your discharge will look like it belongs in a tin of Dulex while the long-term effects could mean no kids. Ever.

- One in 10 sexually active young people have Chlamydia, a disease that can lead to infertility. Worse still is that 70% of cases of Chlamydia in girls has no symptoms. In guys, the discharge can stain your underwear and make your bits tender. True stories. So girls, you may not want a kid now, but what about later in life? Catch Big C and you can be childless. Forever.

- Chlamydia and the Genital Warts virus are two of the most common
STIs in teenagers. Now, I told you a bit about Chlamydia, but do you know the dealio about warts? There’s no need to delve deep into the symptoms, suffice to say that the warts can be tiny or large and can occur in the outside and inside of the vagina, the penis and anus. It is spread through sexual contact and can even develop in the mouth of someone who’s had oral sex with an infected person. In serious cases it can be removed by freezing, burning or lasering and sometimes the virus can stay in your body forever!

- It may seem like a good idea at the time, but sex and alcohol don't mix: teenagers are twice as likely to have unprotected sex after drinking alcohol. Put down the Breezer and walk away. You don’t want to end up with a hangover AND herpes or HIV, do you? If you cop the herpes infection, which is highly contagious and has risen by 4% this last year alone, you can expect fluid-filled blisters that burst to leave painful sores around the lips, eyes, anus and genitals. Now that’s a good look!

- Despite what your friends might say, most don't have sex until they are at least over 16. So your boy who reckons he’s jamming half of year 11, is LYING!

Check:MySpace.com/wantrespect for more information.


Celeb Sex Secrets: Revealed!!!
We get everyone from Beyonce and Mutya to let us inside their bedrooms.

What's your one sexual no-no?
Loudmouth: There's certain places human organs shouldn't enter and I'm a firm believer that no business can be conducted via the back door.
Tru Life: Ain’t no girl touching or licking on my booty hole. We don’t do none of that. We don’t play that over here.
Ny: Nothing to do with the anal area (laughs).
Saigon: No playing with my butt, no fingers in my ass. Stay away from my butthole. Everything else though is fair game!

How’s your flirt game?
Adam Levine: Eye contact. Simple. Look once, look away, look back. Do that 10 times and then say hello.
R Kelly: ‘What yo name is?’ Things like that. Nah, I’m playing. My thing with flirting is pretty much you don’t have to say nothing. You can make a gesture to someone and they might make the same gesture back to you. If I was a flirt, I’d be that kind of flirt, I’d give her that look to let her know she is very cute and that I like her. I wouldn’t step to her though. I wouldn’t do that, but that’s me.

What’s the weirdest place you've ever had sex?
Loudmouth: In a park. It wasn't even dark. We could have been arrested for that. I prefer beds though.
Saigon: On someone’s front lawn in the middle of the day. It was the girl’s idea. We was having a picnic and the next thing you know, she’s riding me! She had a skirt on, so I guess people just thought we were wrestling or something.

How do you rate yourself out of 10 - and why?
Saigon: I’m a 10. I’m passionate. Especially if I like you. I’m the head to toe type – I’ll make love to your fingertips. If I’m just trying to get a nut though, I’m probably a four.
Loudmouth: I'm modest, so I'd say about 7 and 3/4's but if you ask my wifey, she'd tell you I'm an 11. A woman is always right, so who am I to disagree?
Ny: That’s a naughty question! Well, I don’t - let the husband decide (when I get one!).

What’s sexy?
Andre: Of course being attractive is cool, but you gotta have a sexy personality. I don’t have one type of women. I like all shapes and sizes; big women, petite women...it’s more an attitude. Y’all don’t need to be dieting and getting plastic surgery and that crazy stuff; we love you just the way you are.
Jamie Foxx: Girth; I’m talking hips and thighs, the feel of her skin. She doesn’t have to necessarily be pretty, just nice features – the girl next door. Personality-wise, I love drive. A woman who, when she’s done with the 9-5, takes the ponytail out and is ready to hang out.
Amerie: You know what? I like a guy with a Mohican because I would never see that where I’m from, so that’s cool to me. I like the British style.
Pharrell: Funny, smart and pretty. In that order. I don’t expect the impossible, but I like a girl who has high expectations in life, who is interested in different things. I like girls that are avid readers.
Beyoncé: I think British men are cute and they got style. British guys are different - their accents, their haircuts…

Is it true you once bedded five women…
Jamie Foxx: What? No! No, no, no. That’s not true (laughs). That’s a new one.

Food or sex?
Adam Levine: Food; I’d be skinny and laid!

What famous people do you dig?
Adam Levine: There’s too many so I don’t want the rest of the women to feel bad, right?
Mutya: T.I. He’s just sexy. T.I. really does it for me and Tupac would have been my husband by now if he was still alive. But Tiny from Xscape, she’s a very, very lucky woman. If I ever had a chance with him…He’s gorgeous. You know what does it for me? When the girl puts his leg over his shoulder in the Justin Timberlake video. He does something with his mouth and it’s like ‘Wow, I’d love that mouth to be on me.’
Omarion: Angelina Jolie. Those lips…
Jamie Foxx: Oprah Winfrey is very attractive to me – she’s beautiful and she’s running things. Charlize Theron –she’s so beautiful, yet manages to play all of these amazing characters, I find that very attractive. And then there’s Halle Berry. Who doesn’t love Halle Berry?
Kelly Rowland: Well, I admire David Beckham’s looks, but I love Victoria and I respect her, so don’t y’all get it twisted!

Have you ever had a same sex experience?
Loudmouth: Are you mad? Never that. I'm only interested in ‘Zumpi’, but if I was a girl, I'd be a big butch lesbian!
Ny: No, but on two occasions girls have come on to me!
Saigon: Do not even go there. I mean, really. No. No. No.

Porn or no porn?
Ny: Well it doesn’t really bother me but I’ve had partners who really like it, so I don’t mind. I think it’s something guys more get exited about. Either way, safe sex is the best sex!!

Do you go down or do you frown?
Saigon: I go down. I mean, with the right girl. It makes me feel good to know I’m pleasing a woman – it gets me off more. Ain’t no real man don’t eat no pussy. It’s good for your ego.
Fat Joe: C’mon now, you know the song. ‘I don’t go down baby.’ Hell no.

Best sex ever had?
Saigon: Probably the second or third time. The girl put it on me. She rode me with her back to me, so I could see my thing going in and out. That sh*t got me through my bid. I didn’t even have to look at the books to beat off. Just that one visual got me off.
Tru Life: I have great sex all the time cos everything I do, I do with passion. I don’t know how to just have sex. If I have sex, I don’t just put myself in any woman cos I have respect for myself.

What's your No 1 sex tip for people wanting to learn about the lurve game?
Ny: Well, sex and love are different things. I think it’s better to have sex with someone you love or at least like a lot, cos you have more of a connection and feel more comfortable. Love yourself and be confident and never do anything you don’t want to do… but be open-minded.


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Comments

Jason
10 Oct 2007, 19:35
Saigons real!
RAMOS
07 Nov 2007, 17:24
bütün güzel kızlara selam
datgirldatluveshermanlol
08 Jan 2008, 03:11
wha gwaan rwd!!!!??
NEWAYS, I LOVE BEYONCE BUT WOT WAS SHE ON ABOUT?? neways, saigons is serious! y do boys act lyk dem dnt go dwn...oh purrlease! i love a man who goes dwn dat shit feels good! an big up ny....u no its all bout safe sex!
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